Darling, you were never meant to hold the reins…

I see the hunger behind your eyes—the ache to be unraveled, studied, and re-shaped. You crave a woman who doesn’t just play with power, but wears it as effortlessly as her perfume. That’s where I come in.

I am Mistress Vivette: perfectly petite, warm but commanding, seductive with an undercurrent of controlled cruelty. My dominance innate and my sadism gentle—until it isn't. I delight in the dance of control, where your surrender is deliberate and deeply felt. With every whisper, every look, every calculated touch, I pull you deeper into a world where your only purpose is to feel and to serve.

In session, you will find yourself fully seen. I craft each experience around you—your desires, your boundaries, your fears. Whether I’m binding you down tightly or caressing your cheek, I will leave you breathless, seen, and aching for more.…I work intuitively and intentionally, reading the subtle shifts in your body, the tension in your breath, and the truth in your eyes. My aim is not to destroy you, but to reveal you.

Come to my intimate private Brooklyn studio, or meet me for dinner and tell me what you’ve never dared say aloud. Extended and FMTY arrangements available to those who submit with grace. Whether you're an experienced player or a curious novice, if your devotion is sincere and you follow my protocols, you may just find yourself worthy of my velvet cruelty.

Who is Mistress Vivette?

I’ve never fit the mold. Born into a world that tried to tame me, I’ve always walked the edges—unafraid to question norms, break rules, and build new realities. It’s this defiant creativity and clarity of purpose that brought me to BDSM, not as a performance, but as a natural expression of my truest self. My dominance is not borrowed—it is intrinsic. I don’t pretend to lead. I am the one you follow.

As a lifestyle kinkster, my entire life is steeped in devotion to this world. My queerness, my work, my relationships, my community—all of it revolves around the rich tapestry of power exchange, deviance, and radical self-expression. With a sharp mind and an entrepreneurial heart, I’ve built spaces where the misfits and visionaries of kink can gather, learn, play, and belong. Through workshops, salons, play parties, and private engagements, I don’t just serve this community—I help shape its future.

As Mistress Vivette, I invite you into a deeply personal experience of submission. Every session is a one-of-a-kind creation, crafted with psychological precision, sensual control, and intuitive care. I’m a gentle sadist and an artful seductress, guiding you through fear, longing, arousal, and surrender. I read bodies like stories, listen for the breath between words, and draw out the parts of you you’ve only just begun to imagine.

With me, you are not just used—you are studied, unraveled, sculpted, and claimed. I don’t need to scream to be heard. I don’t need to restrain to have control. But I might do both, if it pleases me.

You are welcome here, no matter your gender, orientation, background, or experience level—if your longing is true, and your reverence sincere.

The rules are mine. The pleasure is yours to earn.