Screening is absolutely mandatory for all new clients and a standard practice to ensure my safety. All information is strictly confidential and will be deleted upon screening completion. I require one of the following:

* Two photos of your ID, one of the ID alone with full name and DOB (address can be blurred) and one selfie with you holding the ID.

* Your LinkedIn profile, which should have a photo and at least 50 connections. Please send a subtle follow up email to mistressvivette@proton.me from your work email to verify it is you.

* 2 references from verifiable providers you’ve seen within the last year. Please include names, websites, and contact method once you have their consent to share.

No exceptions.

A 20% deposit is required for all dates. I accept multiple digital payment options, including bitcoin.

Once screening has been completed, I’ll contact you with deposit options & details. Your session is not confirmed until a deposit has been paid.

For travel & FMTY, a deposit of 25% plus travel & accommodation cost is required

I understand that life gets busy & things happen! As long as you are able to let me know 48 hours before our session, I am happy to reschedule our encounter and apply your deposit to a future date.

If you must cancel within 48 hours of our date, your deposit will be forfeited, and I will require a 50% deposit for future bookings.

If for any reason I need to cancel our rendezvous, I will refund your deposit within 72 hours.

You comfort is of the utmost priority to me. Your information and details of our engagement will be kept entirely private. It is my expectation that our actions, anything we discuss during our time together, as well as any personal information learned throughout remains between you and me.

I always prefer cash for my donation, but please let me know before our date if you will be opting for a cashless option. Let’s not limit our time together with talk of logistics.

If opting for cash:

Please leave the donation in an unsealed envelope in plain view at the start of our date.

If we’re meeting in public, please place the donation in a book, card, or gift bag.

If opting for digital patronage:

Please contact me beforehand for options, and send the donation before/at the start of our date.

I pride myself on being open-minded and accepting of all...that applies to non-kinksters too! If you are interested in engaging in a more vanilla experience, please reach out. Power dynamics are not a requirement for my sessions.

I prefer to session out of my private Dungeon in Ridgewood 30 minutes from Midtown. Additionally, I am happy to book us a dungeon space in Manhattan with proper notice. I have a deep love of luxury hotels if you want me to feel truly spoiled...

I do travel outside of NYC near and far for additional travel fees.

A wonderful question!

Gifts:

• Bourbon--bring me something to add to my collection!

• Flowers--the fresh flowers I receive are later dried and used to adorn my home. It's a favorite activity of mine and a perfect way to ensure your place in my heart and home.

• Giftcards to mistressvivette@proton.me--Uber, Anoeses, Purple Passion, Aritzia, For Love & Lemons, Amazon, Etsy

• Lingerie, shoes, bags, etc--I adore being gifted beautiful things of course, but I have particular taste...allow me to choose if you are truly aiming to spoil.

Yes:

• Be thorough and thoughtful in your booking form response. Give me all the information I need to plan a delicious experience for us.

• Practice clear and honest communication. Do not waste my time, and I will not waste yours. Be generous with me, and I guarantee generosity in return.

• Lead with a tribute for priority treatment. Tip well.

• Book in advance. Screen in initial communications.

• Have payment ready to go! Pre-pay with bitcoin or bring cash to your session.

• Be on time and be communicative if something does come up. Do not arrive early. Do confirm our session day of.

• Send me letters and words of adoration. I love to receive detailed accounts of our time together from your perspective!

• Please be physically, hygienically, as well as mentally prepared for our session. Know what you require for aftercare and communicate that clearly. Inform me in advance of your worries or concerns.

No:

• Do not reach out to me if you are unwilling to provide screening. You will not be seeing me. Period.

• Do not reach out to me if you are not prepared to pay a deposit. I do not make exceptions, as I provide a variety of payment options.

• Do not expect extensive communication from me without payment for my time and energy. Book a call with me instead.

• Arrive early or late to our appointment. Your session will not be extended without additional tribute only IF circumstances allow.

• Do not arrive to our session unwashed or inebriated. You will be turned away and your deposit will not be returned.